Why Aishwarya Mohanraj Says, ‘I’m Scared I Might Have A Girl Child’

Creator Aishwarya has opened up about why she does not want to become a parent, saying her decision is rooted in personal trauma, fears about women’s safety and concerns about the influences that could shape a child while growing up. The candid conversation comes after Aishwarya previously found herself at the centre of controversy over her comments surrounding a weight-loss injection. Her latest discussion, however, focuses on a deeply personal subject and explains why she has chosen not to have children. For her, the fear works in two directions. She worries that a daughter could be exposed to danger in a world where she cannot guarantee her safety. At the same time, she worries that a son could potentially grow up to harm women despite being raised with good values.

‘I’m scared that I might have a girl’

When asked why she does not want to have a child, Aishwarya rejected the idea that the decision was about being selfish or being afraid of changes to her body.

“No. It’s ’cause I’m scared that I might have a girl,” she said.

She explained that her biggest concern would be raising a daughter in a world where she believes there is no absolute guarantee of safety.

“I’m scared that she’ll grow up in this world where there is absolutely no guarantee that if she steps out, she’s gonna be safe,” Aishwarya said.

Her fear goes beyond what could happen outside the home. She added that she is not even sure a girl would necessarily be safe while staying at home.

A traumatic experience at 17 continues to affect her.

Aishwarya then connected those fears to a traumatic experience involving her uncle when she was 17.

She directly addressed her uncle while discussing the experience, saying that what happened had left her with lasting trauma.

“You’ve given me trauma forever,” she said.

She did not go into further detail about the incident in the conversation. However, she explained how the experience continues to influence the way she thinks about safety and parenthood.

For her, the possibility of having a daughter brings back the fear that she may not be able to protect her from something similar.

She fears becoming an overly protective mother.

Aishwarya also worries that her own trauma could affect the way she raises a daughter.

She said she could become a paranoid parent who constantly worries about where her daughter is and whether she has returned home safely.

“I’m scared that I will turn into this paranoid parent who’s constantly afraid that her baby has not come back home,” she said.

She also does not want to impose unnecessary restrictions on a daughter because of those fears.

“I don’t want to set stupid rules for her,” Aishwarya said, giving the example of telling a daughter to return home by a particular time simply because the parent is afraid.

Her concern is therefore not only about whether her daughter would be safe. She is also worried that her own fear could end up restricting her daughter’s life.

‘I’m more scared that I might have a boy’

Aishwarya then revealed that, despite her fears about having a daughter, she is even more afraid of having a son.

“I’m scared that I might have a boy,” she said.

Her concern is fundamentally different.

With a daughter, she fears what other people might do to her. With a son, she fears what he might eventually do to others.

“And then I will have to protect the world from him,” she said.

Aishwarya acknowledged that she believes she could be a good mother and raise a boy with good values and ethics.

But she does not believe that parenting can provide complete control over the person a child eventually becomes.

Her fear of online influence

A major part of Aishwarya’s concern is the influence of the internet.

She specifically mentioned Andrew Tate while talking about the possibility of a son encountering online personalities and communities that promote views she considers harmful.

“I don’t know how to make sure that this boy doesn’t go on the internet and get influenced by some fucking Andrew Tate,” she said.

She also mentioned peer pressure and the possibility that a child could eventually make harmful choices despite being taught otherwise.

Aishwarya said she worries about a son potentially doing something harmful, failing to stand up for what is right or failing to protect women around him.

“I don’t know how to raise a child like that,” she said.

Her concern reflects a larger uncertainty she associates with modern parenting: a parent can teach values at home, but cannot completely control what a child encounters through friends, social media, online communities and the wider culture.

Aishwarya says she does not trust men.

The conversation became even more direct when Aishwarya spoke about her views on men.

“I don’t trust a single man on this planet,” she said.

She added that, in her personal view, men are problematic to varying degrees and have had to unlearn sexist attitudes.

She argued that women can be hurt in the process.

“All men are problematic, including my unborn son,” she said.

These comments are Aishwarya’s personal views, expressed in the context of the experiences and fears she described. They should not be treated as a factual claim about all men.

Why she has chosen not to have children

Aishwarya ultimately said that she does not want to have a child.

“So yes, I don’t wanna have a child,” she said, before describing herself as “very selfish” for making that choice.

However, the reasoning she provided was less about rejecting motherhood itself and more about acknowledging the fears and limitations she feels she would carry into parenthood.

Her concerns operate in two directions.

She fears that a daughter could be harmed by someone else. She fears that a son could potentially grow into someone who harms another person.

In both situations, she believes that love, good intentions and responsible parenting cannot guarantee the outcome.

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A decision shaped by trauma and uncertainty

Aishwarya’s decision is ultimately personal. Her comments show how past trauma can influence the way someone thinks about safety, relationships and parenthood.

She is also questioning how much control parents really have over the influences surrounding their children.

A parent can teach a child empathy, respect and good values. But that child will also encounter other people, social media, online communities, peer pressure and ideas that may conflict with what they learn at home.

For Aishwarya, that uncertainty is difficult to accept.

Her fear of having a daughter comes from the possibility that she may not be able to protect her from the dangers she associates with the outside world. Her fear of having a son comes from the possibility that she may not be able to guarantee he will never become part of that danger.

That does not make her decision a universal statement about parenthood. It is her response to her own experiences, trauma and understanding of the world.

And that is ultimately what makes her comments different from simply saying she does not want children. She is explaining why the responsibility of raising another person feels frightening to her and why, for now, she would rather not take that responsibility at all.